Saturday, January 31, 2015

American TV, Does it Capture the Diversity of America Yet?


As humans, we are addicted to stories and the Hollywood entertainment industry caters to our thirst for these stories by providing us with an endless stream of them. Whether it be theatrical films or Television shows, we live vicariously through the pain and pleasure of the multitude of characters presented in these productions. We in a sense try on their predicaments for size and in the process of doing so we reflect on who we are, who we are not, and who we hope to be.    

Historically speaking there has been a dearth of gender, racial and ethnic diversity in film and television, both in front and behind the camera. This reality has meant limited access to employment for women and minorities and to a truncating of the domain of media images available for circulation in contemporary society. 

After many years of watching television change, I had to ask my self, does American TV capture the diversity in America?  Sadly the answer at least in my opinion is a resounding no. We are however making changes that could lead to it finally becoming a Yes.  

Take for example Saturday Night Live, which has been on air since 1975 has in its life time only hired on three black women and had only featured one other black women, Yvonne Hudson in 1980, this says more about the show than about the talent pool. All three women casted over the four decades only lasted for a season or less.

In this context its no wonder that a prime cast member Kenan Thompson launched a debate in early November of 2013 explaining that the show is dearth of black women. Most people know that Saturday Night Live was built on the premise that the actor weren't quite ready for Prime Time TV, but this doesn't mean that the show’s executive producer is racist or is discriminating, just that he doesn't see the value in having a diverse cast. It begs the question, is television to white? 

In contrast Jay Pharoah, who predominately plays President Obama on the show does see the value in having a more diverse cast. He has reach out and argued with "SNL" that they should hire Darmirra Brunson a comedian on Tyler Perry's sitcom "Love Thy Neighbor.” When Pharoah was asked why they should hire her, his pointedly response was " Because she's black, First of all," but he also went on to praise her talent.

The majority of Prime Time television fails in truly representing the country that the majority of its stories are based in. When marginalized groups in society are excluded from the stories a nation tells about it self, or when those images in the media are rooted so deep in stereotypes, inequality is normalized and is more likely to be reinforced over time through our practices and prejudices.  




Recently ABC has taken a stand and Paul Lee the networks entertainment programming head states  "We really do think ABC reflects the new face of America", "America has changed. It's the right thing to do.".  The new 2014-2015 line up host 10 new shows featuring non-white characters and/or show creators, numbers that have not been seen since the days of the Cosby show and the flux of people trying to clone it. Don't think that this change is about fairness or altruism; over looking the fact the America has been a largely diverse country for a while now.  Can the network keep its agreement to make diversity a priority?, or will they screw this up?


Nothing and I mean nothing can reverse the efforts of trying to make television more diverse then epic failure.  But let us not focus on their potential failure and take a look at the ground breaking new season.  ABC came in strong by handing off their Thursday night spot to Shonda Rhimes, creator of Grey's Anatomy and Scandal. Then they scheduled Rhimes newest show How to Get Away with Murder to air right after her two hits. Giving the most powerful black woman in scripted television her own night in primetime, with two shows starring black women. Which has never ever happened before in the history of television. 


ABC network has a whole slew of new shows that are ethnically and racially diverse, Black-ish, Cristela, Fresh Off the Boat, American Crime, casting more black, latino, and Asian people than any other network for the 2014-2015 season. 
                               

Fox has also stepped up by casting more non-white character in shows like Red Band Society, Bordertown, Empire, State of Affairs, and CBS is hosting Extant which features Hally Berry. 


Could television really be changing it tune about diversity of the roles it casts? Is this change going to last after the 2014-2015 season? 
What are your thoughts? Does American TV capture the diversity of America yet?




Wednesday, January 28, 2015

Seattle is heading to the Super Bowl- Oasap Edition

Most likely you already know, that the Seattle Seahawks are heading to the Superbowl once again.
That game was by far the most heart wrenching game ever.... I never lost faith in my Hawks though, I knew if they played right in the last few minutes they could at least get into overtime. 

In Honor of their victorious win over the Green Bay packers.
I suited up in full on Seahawks Gear, with some of my own touches thanks to Oasap.com

I am super impatient with waiting for the Superbowl. 
I have no doubt that we will take the win, and be Super Bowl Champions once Again!!
So fellow Hawk Lover and Seattleites Get your Game Day Gear Ready... 
and prepare for the most epic game of the year!

Lastly but most definitely not least. Thanks Oasap for sending me the lovely Infinity Scarf, Helping me complete my game day look!


 Loop Knit Infinity Scarf
Loop Knit Infinity Scarf- Oasap



Monday, December 22, 2014

Why We Fail at Relationships




We all have read or heard countless reasons to why relationships fail, and while some of the reasons are valid, such as lack of trust, or our lives become routine and we stop caring as much. 

The Truth of the matter is 
 Relationships don't fail; we do. 

We live in the age of technology; where social media, text messages and Internet porn are consuming almost every free second we have.  
We constantly compare one another to other men, to other women, and then we start comparing ourselves to people. We compare each other to TV stars, to models, to porn stars, etc. Then we start to wonder why we never measure up and we fill ourselves with self-doubt, and we forget how to love ourselves. 
If we cant love ourselves how can we expect anyone else to love us, or for  that matter for ourselves to love anyone. 
The answer: We cannot.

The problem stems from many things; but mostly from Internet and cellphone apps. Take for example Snapchat, where the illusion of the idea that photos will be instantly deleted once seen, unless the receiver is smart enough to know how to use screenshot.  How about Instagram, where we post half nude selfies in order to get likes, where we post photos of our lives in order to see how many people like the way we live, or Hot or not where we set ourselves up to be rated by our peers, and then we wonder why people have eating disorders or body image issues. We constantly look for approval everywhere, except where it matter the most. The approval to live our lives how we want without caring what others think.

 Lastly but not least of all in the list of things that tearing us from what a true relationship is the unlimited dating sites at our fingertips, in which we can flip through thousands of people, find one we think is attractive and in a sense order them up to our door like you would order pizza. If you didn't like that particular slice you have the option of sending it back and looking for a new slice to order up. Sometimes you might even order up more than one person to your door at a time. We start treating each other like we are options on an endless buffet, we constantly claim that if our relationship fails, that its not a big deal because there are more fish in the sea. Yet we are never ever truly satisfied. 
Yet we still wonder why people are afraid to commit. 

We parade our relationship around on social media, portraying that we have a perfect one. Where its all love and not a single fight. We post our couple photos up on facebook and Instagram to get the satisfaction that others see how perfect our truly imperfect relationship is. Other couple compare themselves to these photos and question why they don't have photos like that with their partner. We constantly try to one up each other in our relationships by posting every outing and every single event to our timelines. Constantly we look to the approval of others in our everyday lives, never satisfied just living life for ourselves.   

We walk down the street with our significant other and know that every woman that passes by gets the sideway glances from our man, and that we as women are just as guilty of looking at men. Society tells us that its okay to look as long as we don't touch, its okay to lust after someone when you are already in a relationship, and that above all its okay to cheat as long as you don't get caught. We live in a society that openly accepts and promotes infidelity. With T.V. shows like Mistresses, Satisfaction, The Affair and Married that showing us just how easily we could get away with it.

We get lost in our phones, whether it be games, Facebook, tumblr or any other site for that matter. We use text messaging as a means to communicate our thoughts and feelings, but words no matter how well written, it can not convey the context in your voice or the true emotion behind your emojis. We consider "Good morning" or "Good night" texts to be a good effort in our relationships. 

Is there any reason to wonder why thing don't work out? 

Romance has been so watered down that we what we think is romantic is in fact not. 
We think Romance is doing something new or spontaneous for our partner, like wearing lingerie to entice the man we are seeing or spending absurd amounts of money on jewelry to buy that persons love. 
Romance is more than that, its not manufactured in a store, you can not buy it, it is completely individual. What one person thinks is romantic may not be for someone else, but I can tell you what I think is romantic at least for the majority of people. Romance; it comes from holding hands while going on a long walk, sitting at the beach while watching the sunset or rise. Its having dinner alone where cellphones are turned off, and for once all your attention is given to the person sitting directly in front of you and not to the glowing blue light of your phone. It the conversations about nothing in particular, its the enjoyment of the company before you, it is an always will be more than chocolate cover fruit and roses, its about quality time spent together. 


Relationships, like many things take time to grow and mature, most people jump in head first without building a solid foundation to land on. We rush in with our hearts full of lust, but when the initial feelings start to fade we snap back to reality, we start to second guess our choices, and that is when doubt set in. 

So maybe just maybe you are the reason things are not working out for you the way you would like. 
Lets try an experiment, regardless if you are in a relationship now, or looking for someone, when you are with that person, give them your attention. If you just went on a date with someone you met online, delete the dating app if it went well. If you're on a date set everything else aside as if it doesn't matter and talk to the person. Ask them about their day, their goals, and their dreams. 

Stop comparing them to other people, stop comparing yourself. 
Stop acting like people are options, because eventually they will choose to leave you. 
Stop acting like social media is more important than the rough day your partner had.
Nothing and I mean nothing is more important that what is happening right before your eyes. 
Stop having unrealistic expectations about your partner, they are not perfect and neither are you.  

XOXO- That Girl Rika

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Baby its Cold Outside

School has been keeping me busy, but here is a little update, I have been super stoked about all the snow, winter is one of my favorite times of year, I absolutely love the scenery when its covered in snow.   
As you can see Winter has certainly come at full force these past week. We had an insane freak snow storm here in Washington state. I am just grateful the Jacket I order from Oasap.com came just in time. 

Here are a few photos from that day....













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